5 Ways to Improve Your Life With Positivity
Today’s world seems dark.
People have lost faith in the institutions that shaped civilizations for centuries—governments, media, and even religious institutions. Yet, even in uncertain times, you can improve your life by adding more positivity.
Here are five ways to cultivate positivity in your life.
Meditation
Meditation is more than seeking a spiritual connection—though that can be a focus. It also involves digging deep within yourself to understand your soul, what drives your actions, and how you can make small changes to improve your behavior and life.
Changes could be as simple as getting up 15 minutes earlier to read scripture, deciding to read a book each month, adding a walk to your routine, or even getting a pet.
Once you begin looking inward, you’ll start to differentiate between what you truly need and what you simply want. More often than not, the things you need involve responsibility rather than material wealth.
Understand How Thoughts Relate to Manifestation
Manifestation is often misunderstood. Some see it as magically making money, love, or jobs appear in life. In reality, manifestation is neither magical nor mysterious—it’s logical.
The Power of Thoughts
The Bible states in Proverbs 23:7, “As a man thinks in his heart, so is he.” This passage warns against envying the luxuries of evil people, as desiring their wealth and lifestyle can lead to adopting their ways.
Similarly, when you focus on positive things, you begin to embody them, and positive results follow. That’s manifestation.
- Want love? Focus on giving love to others. Eventually, you will attract someone who seeks the same.
- Want a better job? Become the best worker where you are now. If your current boss doesn’t notice, someone else will. Opportunities will come.
Put Away Negative Thoughts
Everyone has negative thoughts—fears of being alone, not being smart enough, attractive enough, or successful enough. But these thoughts hold no real power unless you give them power.
Detaching From Negative Thoughts
Author Byron Katie once said:
“A thought is harmless unless we believe it. It’s not our thoughts, but our attachment to our thoughts, that causes suffering.”
Some negative beliefs start in childhood and persist for decades. For example:
- A man in his 50s still believes he’s unintelligent because a doctor once told his parents that kids with his learning disability often fail in life.
- A woman refuses to sing in front of others because her mother once said she hated her voice.
- Another woman avoids hosting parties because no one showed up to a childhood birthday.
These are false narratives repeated so often they feel true. Let them go.
Instill New Programming
Removing negativity is only half the battle—you must replace it with positive thoughts.
Be Mindful of What You Consume
What you feed your mind shapes your outlook. Ask yourself:
- Is my music, news, or social media uplifting or draining?
- Do I feel empowered or weighed down by what I read and watch?
Many people have quit watching the news due to its negativity and bias. Overconsumption of violent TV shows or pessimistic media can also lower your energy. Instead, shift your focus to:
- Inspirational shows with moral lessons
- Educational documentaries
- Uplifting music that boosts your mood
Once you step away from negative content, you’ll be shocked at how much lighter you feel.
Use Affirmations
Affirmations remind you of your intentions and help reprogram your mind. Here are ways to incorporate them into daily life:
1. Mirror Affirmations
Look into a mirror and repeat positive statements to yourself. Seeing yourself say them reinforces belief.
2. Journaling
Write down affirmations and review them during tough times.
3. Sticky Notes
Place notes with affirmations on your bathroom mirror, fridge, or car dashboard.
4. Phone Alarms
Set phone reminders with affirmations to uplift you throughout the day.
5. Guided Meditations
If you’re unsure how to start, listen to experts like Louise Hay for structured affirmations.
Keep At It
The hardest part of embracing positivity is making it a habit. Like switching from fast food to a healthy diet, it requires commitment.
At first, you’ll need constant reminders. But within a few months, positivity will become second nature—and you’ll wonder why you didn’t start sooner.